tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26717801.post2907639318749988132..comments2023-12-15T01:18:40.855+11:00Comments on Expat@Large: Report #345 from The Planet of Sad Lonely Old Menexpat@largehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01250623536121293636noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26717801.post-84500236928696461402009-11-25T04:12:59.639+11:002009-11-25T04:12:59.639+11:00Just think of all the shared memories you couldn&#...Just think of all the shared memories you couldn't have.Dick Headleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11978203284842718331noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26717801.post-79898361054064934362009-11-25T04:11:04.046+11:002009-11-25T04:11:04.046+11:00H-G: and TOO MUCH thinking? To me that is impossi...H-G: and TOO MUCH thinking? To me that is impossible. In my opinion I (and everyone I know) don't think anywhere near enough bout what they do and why they do it. When I grow up I want to be Nietsche or Schopenhauer. Schopenhauer was a major serial fornicator BTW. Nietsche, not so much.expat@largehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01250623536121293636noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26717801.post-47074289885978494672009-11-25T03:50:11.471+11:002009-11-25T03:50:11.471+11:00H-G: for 11 years I had a wife who was incredibly ...H-G: for 11 years I had a wife who was incredibly specific about my sexual abilities (or lack thereof) - I think (as do some of my ex-gfs) that I still being rained on by that cloud. Yet technically, in those days (compared to now) I was brilliant!expat@largehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01250623536121293636noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26717801.post-57330361017445664012009-11-25T03:47:06.942+11:002009-11-25T03:47:06.942+11:00H-G: LOL, yes that is how it should be, I cerebral...H-G: LOL, yes that is how it should be, I cerebrally agree, but I can't seem to manage it in real life. <br /><br />Sigh.expat@largehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01250623536121293636noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26717801.post-17705907481697570202009-11-24T23:55:18.155+11:002009-11-24T23:55:18.155+11:00Too much thinking.
Just find someone who is aest...Too much thinking. <br /><br />Just find someone who is aesthetically pleasing (for the quiet moments), understands English a bit (for when you want her to run errands and such - maybe discuss films), laughs at your jokes and lies about your sexual ability and assume that the relationship has a maximum of 2 years and enjoy. Repeat until death.Stephen Folanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15718095980097993947noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26717801.post-8575385539873067462009-11-22T23:17:21.605+11:002009-11-22T23:17:21.605+11:00Scott: actually this had ALWAYS been my attitude (...Scott: actually this had ALWAYS been my attitude (not counting hookers since I got to Asia) - can take the boy out of catholic morality and guilt machinery but...<br /><br />Hmm. I'm not sure if it is that simple, or whether it's just that the whole hypocrisy of humanity disgusts me. Yeah, maybe the latter. I'd go with the latter.expat@largehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01250623536121293636noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26717801.post-32673633851909898732009-11-22T23:10:32.656+11:002009-11-22T23:10:32.656+11:00Dan: try 'Friday' by Michel Tournier inste...Dan: try 'Friday' by Michel Tournier instead.<br /><br />Scott: yes, as Frued said, no-one can be analysed when they have a tooth-ache. Falling in love while suffering intractable neuropathy and and being doped up on shitloads of drugs, no way either.expat@largehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01250623536121293636noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26717801.post-66921007486120115542009-11-22T21:25:11.648+11:002009-11-22T21:25:11.648+11:00I think that sex is a perfectly acceptable motivat...I think that sex is a perfectly acceptable motivation to be in a relationship and the same sentiment has been expressed to me by several women I know as well.<br /><br />I think that you just need to work up your libido again so that you feel that motivation rather that just analysing it as an abstract thought.Lost in Melbournehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03197275050826963568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26717801.post-4090362750937497802009-11-22T18:09:05.212+11:002009-11-22T18:09:05.212+11:00'And I have never been prepared to have a rela...'And I have never been prepared to have a relationship just so I could fuck someone. Am I Robinson Crusoe on this?'<br /><br />I must re-read Defoe.DanPloyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15141529316324762686noreply@blogger.com